Dating Blog List of Online dating Tips and advice
Monday, June 16, 2008
WHAT YOU MUST KNOW BEFORE
A lot of our members are always asking what the should know about someone before they meet offline. So we have prepared a top ten list to help you all out.
1) The person’s real name
2) Whether the person lives on his/her own or with others or even still lives with mum and dad
3) Something about the person’s “roots” to get a sense of where they came from
4) How the person makes a living
5) The person’s personal values
6) What the person does for fun – his/her leisure preferences and energy level
7) The degree to which the person uses any legal or illicit substances
8) What the person is currently seeking in a relationship (causal, serious or up for grabs)
9) The person’s criminal history, if any
10) Whether the person has any children and how many
1) The person’s real name
2) Whether the person lives on his/her own or with others or even still lives with mum and dad
3) Something about the person’s “roots” to get a sense of where they came from
4) How the person makes a living
5) The person’s personal values
6) What the person does for fun – his/her leisure preferences and energy level
7) The degree to which the person uses any legal or illicit substances
8) What the person is currently seeking in a relationship (causal, serious or up for grabs)
9) The person’s criminal history, if any
10) Whether the person has any children and how many
Labels: dating, do's and don'ts, online dating, potential date, safety, tips, trying online dating
Thursday, March 13, 2008
Dating sites VS social networking
Ok so we all recognize and understand the importance of social networking sites like myspace and youtube but are they taking the dating sites on or merely creating more confusion for online dating participants.
We asked Rod Davies and Expert in online dating trends what his thoughts were. " I have been on myspace for a few years now and studied other users activities closely. Its funny but I honestly believe the ratio of business users on myspace by far outnumbers any profile that even looks like its real.
The evidence is clear for all to see. myspace is constantly re-engineering their entire platform to keep spammers and FAKE USERS from stealing traffic?
When I first joined myspace you could actually send thousands of friends request without having to fill in a security code. Now they only let you send 10.
You also used to be able to send unlimited comments to friends without having to fill in those silly security codes.
And now every time you hit a link on someone’s profile you are re-directed to a myspace page warning you about people (phishing your profile).
So naturally when I see all these items changing in the world of social networking, I can’t help but think of the type of people that need to be controlled to this extent.
Personally, I think a lot of social networking sites are full of time wasters just wanting to plug their own business. And that’s fine if your into that kind of thing. But when your actually looking for real life people that actually want to meet new friends and socialize Dating sites are around 90% more successful."
Ticket4one is gaining pace with the trends of dating sites and social networking all rolled into one. WHY? Because Ticket4one.com's profile approval process is 100% human edited. Weeding out those fake profiles.
Feel free to leave your comment and let us know your thoughts on the subject
We asked Rod Davies and Expert in online dating trends what his thoughts were. " I have been on myspace for a few years now and studied other users activities closely. Its funny but I honestly believe the ratio of business users on myspace by far outnumbers any profile that even looks like its real.
The evidence is clear for all to see. myspace is constantly re-engineering their entire platform to keep spammers and FAKE USERS from stealing traffic?
When I first joined myspace you could actually send thousands of friends request without having to fill in a security code. Now they only let you send 10.
You also used to be able to send unlimited comments to friends without having to fill in those silly security codes.
And now every time you hit a link on someone’s profile you are re-directed to a myspace page warning you about people (phishing your profile).
So naturally when I see all these items changing in the world of social networking, I can’t help but think of the type of people that need to be controlled to this extent.
Personally, I think a lot of social networking sites are full of time wasters just wanting to plug their own business. And that’s fine if your into that kind of thing. But when your actually looking for real life people that actually want to meet new friends and socialize Dating sites are around 90% more successful."
Ticket4one is gaining pace with the trends of dating sites and social networking all rolled into one. WHY? Because Ticket4one.com's profile approval process is 100% human edited. Weeding out those fake profiles.
Feel free to leave your comment and let us know your thoughts on the subject
Labels: dating, dating site, networking, online dating, social, social networking
Wednesday, February 20, 2008
What Users Say are the best tips for Dating
We Recently asked users what they thought were the best dating tips they knew and the response was great.
This is the top ten list of tips (not in any specific order)
#1 by crkian
I haven't been out dating for so long.
Be yourself is a must though
#2 by gmoney
radical honesty. Be honest at all expenses.... if she can handle real honesty (not brutal honesty) but radical honesty then it will be all good. To many people send out a representative of themselves out on a date. This means they are not their real self. Be you and practice radical honesty!!!
#3 by acousticguitarist
don't try and be over amorous on the first date
#4 by rileycentral
Do something you both are relaxed and make sure if its an early date that you meet somewhere. It sucks when you feel like you are trapped and can't leave. This is going way back for me though, I got married in 2002
#5 by wozog
Here is my first advice. When your on the date you will probably go to a shopping area, just to look around. Keep your ears open and see if she is interested in anything. For example, you see her pick up a perfume and tries it on and she likes it. Remember which one she liked. After you go somewhere else, tell her you have to go to the bathroom. Run to the store and buy it. Now this is the hard part. All woman have purses. They love their purse and never let it out of their site. You have to somehow put the perfume into her purse. I suggest in the movie theater where it is very dark. After the date is over. She will go home and maybe that night or the next day she will find that wonderful surprise. She will HAVE to give you a call. That gift got you, a second call, showed your not cheap, showed your romantic, and most likely got you a second date. You know she will tell her girlfriends and her girlfriends will LOVE you which is another plus. Doing this will not make you look creepy, it works! Woman love this kind of stuff.
#6 by Kiwipulse
Don't try to make your partner drunk..
#7 by Anok
Hmmm, From a gal's perspective as to what we want on a date....
I haven't dated in some time now....but.....let's see. Don't puke on her shoes (I think it's relatively OK for a gal to puke on his shoes, but like I said, it's been a while), and, what else...
Oh yeah, there will be no giving of the Christmas "goose" early, got it? Chicks don't dig that.
Other than that, let the gal go into the mosh pit first, giver first crack at the bastard who did goose her (then thoroughly pummel him, thats chivalry), let her buy her own beers....and don't piss off anyone in her circle of friends. They are likely to be larger and meaner than you.
Yup, thats about it.
#8 by kdawg68
don't go out with a loaded weapon.
#9 by kdawg68
Well, I think I've learned today that no matter how tempting it is, you should probably avoid dressing up like Lion-O of the Thundercats if you are trying to impress a woman on a date.
(sorry folks but this next one was just too funny not to add)
#10 by aningeniousname
1/When on a date be interested in her and try not to go on about your wife.
2/Never pay for the date as women find his offensive.
3/Tell her before the date starts the level of intimacy she will be allowed to achieve afterwards, this should stop any embarrassing moments.
4/Women enjoy football immensely so try to steer the conversation towards this topic she will be impressed by our thoughtfulness.
5/Don't bother dressing up for your date, women like a project and she will see your lack of style and basic hygiene as an interesting challenge
This is the top ten list of tips (not in any specific order)
#1 by crkian
I haven't been out dating for so long.
Be yourself is a must though
#2 by gmoney
radical honesty. Be honest at all expenses.... if she can handle real honesty (not brutal honesty) but radical honesty then it will be all good. To many people send out a representative of themselves out on a date. This means they are not their real self. Be you and practice radical honesty!!!
#3 by acousticguitarist
don't try and be over amorous on the first date
#4 by rileycentral
Do something you both are relaxed and make sure if its an early date that you meet somewhere. It sucks when you feel like you are trapped and can't leave. This is going way back for me though, I got married in 2002
#5 by wozog
Here is my first advice. When your on the date you will probably go to a shopping area, just to look around. Keep your ears open and see if she is interested in anything. For example, you see her pick up a perfume and tries it on and she likes it. Remember which one she liked. After you go somewhere else, tell her you have to go to the bathroom. Run to the store and buy it. Now this is the hard part. All woman have purses. They love their purse and never let it out of their site. You have to somehow put the perfume into her purse. I suggest in the movie theater where it is very dark. After the date is over. She will go home and maybe that night or the next day she will find that wonderful surprise. She will HAVE to give you a call. That gift got you, a second call, showed your not cheap, showed your romantic, and most likely got you a second date. You know she will tell her girlfriends and her girlfriends will LOVE you which is another plus. Doing this will not make you look creepy, it works! Woman love this kind of stuff.
#6 by Kiwipulse
Don't try to make your partner drunk..
#7 by Anok
Hmmm, From a gal's perspective as to what we want on a date....
I haven't dated in some time now....but.....let's see. Don't puke on her shoes (I think it's relatively OK for a gal to puke on his shoes, but like I said, it's been a while), and, what else...
Oh yeah, there will be no giving of the Christmas "goose" early, got it? Chicks don't dig that.
Other than that, let the gal go into the mosh pit first, giver first crack at the bastard who did goose her (then thoroughly pummel him, thats chivalry), let her buy her own beers....and don't piss off anyone in her circle of friends. They are likely to be larger and meaner than you.
Yup, thats about it.
#8 by kdawg68
don't go out with a loaded weapon.
#9 by kdawg68
Well, I think I've learned today that no matter how tempting it is, you should probably avoid dressing up like Lion-O of the Thundercats if you are trying to impress a woman on a date.
(sorry folks but this next one was just too funny not to add)
#10 by aningeniousname
1/When on a date be interested in her and try not to go on about your wife.
2/Never pay for the date as women find his offensive.
3/Tell her before the date starts the level of intimacy she will be allowed to achieve afterwards, this should stop any embarrassing moments.
4/Women enjoy football immensely so try to steer the conversation towards this topic she will be impressed by our thoughtfulness.
5/Don't bother dressing up for your date, women like a project and she will see your lack of style and basic hygiene as an interesting challenge
Labels: advice, best, dating, dating blog, online dating, tips
Friday, January 18, 2008
Online Dating Women to Men Ratios
One of the facts of online dating is that there are more men than women online. For example, Match.com recently told ABC News that 59% of their subscribers are men and 41% are women. However Ticket4one.com Has also released that they have atleast 70% women and 30% men
The high male/female ratio of online dating is not the fault of the online dating services, but it reflects the unfortunate realities of the real world. Over a decade ago I recall reading a New York Times article that stated that there were approximately 6 single men in their twenties for every five single women.
How is this possible? Aren't there an approximately equal number of boy and girl babies born each year? The biggest contributor to the skewed ratio is serial polygamy. A man in his twenties marries a woman in her twenties, then in his thirties he divorces her and marries another woman in her twenties, then in his forties he marries another women in her twenties. This happens. I have a friend who's in his fifties and his current wife is in her twenties.
There is also parallel polygamy. I woman I know, when she was in her twenties, knew a guy who had two girlfriends at the same time (neither, of course, knew of the other one's existence). And at the same time he was also hitting on her, trying to bring his harem up to three!
What's going on in the real world is reflected in the virtual world of online dating. In fact, it's skewed worse than in the real world, because online dating sites attract a much greater percentage of people who have trouble finding dates. So not only will there be more men, there will be more undesirable (for whatever reasons) members of both sexes.
Men who use online dating services will initially try to contact the few women they are interested in. But because the desirable women receive more emails than they can respond to, male subscribers eventually figure out that they have to send out massive numbers of emails because the response rate is so low. So we wind up in the situation we're in now. Female subscribers to online dating services receive more emails than they can respond to, and male subscribers send out large numbers of emails and rarely get a response.
Women actually complain about this, but I think they are in a far better situation than men. If you are a man, how do you fix the problem? The answer is that you need to move to Manhattan. There are more single women in Manhattan than men. If you do searches in Ticket4one.com for Manhattan, you will find about 50% more female profiles than male profiles. The opposite of the ratio for the rest of the United States.
Living in Manhattan and using Ticket4one.com, I've been quite happy with how many women respond to my emails. And being a nerdy IT professional, I'm not a high priority catch for most women. They'd rather be going out with the good looking athletic men. You also get to meet women of a caliber you'd never find in Phoenix, Arizona, like graduates of Harvard and Yale law schools.
The high male/female ratio of online dating is not the fault of the online dating services, but it reflects the unfortunate realities of the real world. Over a decade ago I recall reading a New York Times article that stated that there were approximately 6 single men in their twenties for every five single women.
How is this possible? Aren't there an approximately equal number of boy and girl babies born each year? The biggest contributor to the skewed ratio is serial polygamy. A man in his twenties marries a woman in her twenties, then in his thirties he divorces her and marries another woman in her twenties, then in his forties he marries another women in her twenties. This happens. I have a friend who's in his fifties and his current wife is in her twenties.
There is also parallel polygamy. I woman I know, when she was in her twenties, knew a guy who had two girlfriends at the same time (neither, of course, knew of the other one's existence). And at the same time he was also hitting on her, trying to bring his harem up to three!
What's going on in the real world is reflected in the virtual world of online dating. In fact, it's skewed worse than in the real world, because online dating sites attract a much greater percentage of people who have trouble finding dates. So not only will there be more men, there will be more undesirable (for whatever reasons) members of both sexes.
Men who use online dating services will initially try to contact the few women they are interested in. But because the desirable women receive more emails than they can respond to, male subscribers eventually figure out that they have to send out massive numbers of emails because the response rate is so low. So we wind up in the situation we're in now. Female subscribers to online dating services receive more emails than they can respond to, and male subscribers send out large numbers of emails and rarely get a response.
Women actually complain about this, but I think they are in a far better situation than men. If you are a man, how do you fix the problem? The answer is that you need to move to Manhattan. There are more single women in Manhattan than men. If you do searches in Ticket4one.com for Manhattan, you will find about 50% more female profiles than male profiles. The opposite of the ratio for the rest of the United States.
Living in Manhattan and using Ticket4one.com, I've been quite happy with how many women respond to my emails. And being a nerdy IT professional, I'm not a high priority catch for most women. They'd rather be going out with the good looking athletic men. You also get to meet women of a caliber you'd never find in Phoenix, Arizona, like graduates of Harvard and Yale law schools.
Labels: dating, european women, men, online dating, ratio
Monday, January 07, 2008
Spot The Scammers
I have written to Thousands of people online over the years. One thing I have defiantly learnt is how to pick the fakes from the real people. And now your going to have my secrets to use totally free.
Here are some of my tips.
Tip # 1 Read the profile.
Sounds simple but its not. I mean really look at the writing, study it. Is it written properly? And I don't mean little speling errors. I mean was it carefully written? Does it tell you much about the person? Or was it just thrown together quick or sound like they copied it right out of a magazine?
Nigerian scammers are online and preying on innocent people, fortunately not all of them are smart. Generally you will see a "god fearing" statements written somewhere in their profile. (It’s a warning sign only)
Tip # 2 The Profile Picture
Where is he/she pics from? If it looks too good to be true (it could be)
Tip #3 Nickname Tricks.
Luckily enough there are massive amounts of singles online who are honest and more then happy to share information. Go To www.google.com and do a search for the Nickname. And do many... Searches like "Nickname scammer" or "Nickname" or "Hate Nickname".
You may be lucky and someone has written about there experiences with your new love in the past.
Tip # 3 Get video.
Everyone has access to a webcam. If they can post a pic of themselves. Then it is possible. NEVER NEVER NEVER Believe someone that does not show themselves via webcam first. They are hiding something I promise.
Now that you have a bit of advice for online dating there is just one more thing to remember..... Regardless of your current situation you are unique and special in this world, even if you don’t feel it right now you are. SO PLEASE NEVER SEND MONEY TO ANYONE FOR ANYTHING. YOU’RE TOO GOOD TO BE PLAYED FOR A FOOL.
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Here are some of my tips.
Tip # 1 Read the profile.
Sounds simple but its not. I mean really look at the writing, study it. Is it written properly? And I don't mean little speling errors. I mean was it carefully written? Does it tell you much about the person? Or was it just thrown together quick or sound like they copied it right out of a magazine?
Nigerian scammers are online and preying on innocent people, fortunately not all of them are smart. Generally you will see a "god fearing" statements written somewhere in their profile. (It’s a warning sign only)
Tip # 2 The Profile Picture
Where is he/she pics from? If it looks too good to be true (it could be)
Tip #3 Nickname Tricks.
Luckily enough there are massive amounts of singles online who are honest and more then happy to share information. Go To www.google.com and do a search for the Nickname. And do many... Searches like "Nickname scammer" or "Nickname" or "Hate Nickname".
You may be lucky and someone has written about there experiences with your new love in the past.
Tip # 3 Get video.
Everyone has access to a webcam. If they can post a pic of themselves. Then it is possible. NEVER NEVER NEVER Believe someone that does not show themselves via webcam first. They are hiding something I promise.
Now that you have a bit of advice for online dating there is just one more thing to remember..... Regardless of your current situation you are unique and special in this world, even if you don’t feel it right now you are. SO PLEASE NEVER SEND MONEY TO ANYONE FOR ANYTHING. YOU’RE TOO GOOD TO BE PLAYED FOR A FOOL.
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Labels: dating, online dating, people, safety, scam, scammer, secret, security
Friday, January 04, 2008
Online Dating | Minimize Your Risk Factors
As you probably accept by now, Online Dating is an efficient and fun way to meet new and interesting people. However, Online Dating can be risky business and you need to protect yourself.
Most people you meet on line are exactly who they say they are but there are the perverts and sexual predators so you should use some good judgment while getting to know the stranger you have just met.
Risk Management #1:
Don’t Give Out Any Personal Information until You Have Gotten to Know the Person.
Never give your real name, address or phone number until you are sure the person you are talking to is who they say they are. Perverts, sexual predators and just plain garden variety weirdoes come in both sexes, all ages and in all shapes and sizes.
It’s truly better to be safe than sorry.
Risk Management #2:
Take Your Time Getting to Know the Other Person.
You will see a picture sooner or later of him or her. Don’t be fooled by outward appearances. The real person is the one you need to get to know.
Honest and faithful are qualities that will last but beautiful and handsome will fade with time. You don’t have to spend 24/7 with a person to find out who they are. You do need to listen to what he or she is saying carefully.
Once you think you know this person well enough to exchange personal information, don’t stop there. The Internet is a wonderful place where you can learn just about anything and everything about anybody and in just a few minutes.
Risk Management #3:
Do your Homework!
Check them out. There is an old saying among journalists. “Your mother says she loves you but check it out.” That is good advice for Online Dating and for “real world” dating too. Don’t take everything the other person tells you at face value.
Most people you meet on line are exactly who they say they are but there are the perverts and sexual predators so you should use some good judgment while getting to know the stranger you have just met.
Risk Management #1:
Don’t Give Out Any Personal Information until You Have Gotten to Know the Person.
Never give your real name, address or phone number until you are sure the person you are talking to is who they say they are. Perverts, sexual predators and just plain garden variety weirdoes come in both sexes, all ages and in all shapes and sizes.
It’s truly better to be safe than sorry.
Risk Management #2:
Take Your Time Getting to Know the Other Person.
You will see a picture sooner or later of him or her. Don’t be fooled by outward appearances. The real person is the one you need to get to know.
Honest and faithful are qualities that will last but beautiful and handsome will fade with time. You don’t have to spend 24/7 with a person to find out who they are. You do need to listen to what he or she is saying carefully.
Once you think you know this person well enough to exchange personal information, don’t stop there. The Internet is a wonderful place where you can learn just about anything and everything about anybody and in just a few minutes.
Risk Management #3:
Do your Homework!
Check them out. There is an old saying among journalists. “Your mother says she loves you but check it out.” That is good advice for Online Dating and for “real world” dating too. Don’t take everything the other person tells you at face value.
Labels: dating, men, online, online dating, security, single, women
Thursday, January 03, 2008
Online Dating Today
Online Dating services expand daily. There are over 40 million Americans who are using them… they can’t all be wrong.
Online Dating is just plain fun! You meet people from all over the world and
it’s safe and easy. It doesn’t matter whether you are looking for someone
close to home or from half way around the world, Online Dating offers all
those possibilities.
Millions of singles are right there at your fingertips ready for a conversation
with you. Hundreds of thousands of new people sign up every month.
The benefits are innumerable. Right now there are millions of active
members online just waiting to talk to someone like you.
You can quickly separate those who are looking for casual relationships
from those who are looking for long term relationships and choose the
people who share your own goals and interests.
Unlike meeting a stranger in a bar, you have the answers to a lot of questions
before you ever say, “Hello”.
The features on most Online Dating sites are wonderful. You will have
access to thousands of profiles, photos and even audio and video clips. Some
services even match you up with others according to your profiles.
Dating has never been more fun, not to mention, less expensive. Yes, you
pay to join any dating service that is good.
The free ones don’t offer much. But the benefits of Online Dating are many
and certainly worth the small fee that you pay for so much fun and opportunity.
Online Dating is just plain fun! You meet people from all over the world and
it’s safe and easy. It doesn’t matter whether you are looking for someone
close to home or from half way around the world, Online Dating offers all
those possibilities.
Millions of singles are right there at your fingertips ready for a conversation
with you. Hundreds of thousands of new people sign up every month.
The benefits are innumerable. Right now there are millions of active
members online just waiting to talk to someone like you.
You can quickly separate those who are looking for casual relationships
from those who are looking for long term relationships and choose the
people who share your own goals and interests.
Unlike meeting a stranger in a bar, you have the answers to a lot of questions
before you ever say, “Hello”.
The features on most Online Dating sites are wonderful. You will have
access to thousands of profiles, photos and even audio and video clips. Some
services even match you up with others according to your profiles.
Dating has never been more fun, not to mention, less expensive. Yes, you
pay to join any dating service that is good.
The free ones don’t offer much. But the benefits of Online Dating are many
and certainly worth the small fee that you pay for so much fun and opportunity.
Labels: dating, dating blog, dating site, latest, online, online dating, today
Tuesday, January 01, 2008
Online Dating Mistakes to Avoid
While you search the internet for that special lady…the one of your dreams…your soul-mate... the other half of yourself, you can do a lot of things right. Sadly, you can, also, do a lot of things wrong... things that will guarantee failure and a broken heart.
Out in the “real” world, being aggressive, demanding perfection and even little white lies are all ingredients for success. However, those same qualities are killers when you are dating online and off line, too, for that matter.
There is a big difference between being aggressive or confident and being too aggressive, over-confident, or just plain sleazy or slimy from a woman’s point of view. If you push too hard for a face-to-face, you will come across as too aggressive... maybe even, scary.
Try to remember that you are not trying to close a business deal and keep the relationship progressing at a slow but steady pace. Patience is the key.
Nobody is perfect. We are all flawed in some way or another... and that includes you, as well. If you expect the woman to be absolutely perfect and demand that, you will always be disappointed. Demanding perfectionism in your work is one thing.
Demanding perfectionism from a friend, co-worker or a lady you are interested in is not just fine. It won’t happen. Expect flaws and just deal with them. Decide the ones you can live with and those you can’t.
Little white lies and false fronts won’t work. Be honest from the beginning of a relationship. Write your profile. Make it interesting but don’t make false statements.
The truth will come out eventually anyway. If you say you are a lawyer who makes a million bucks a year and you are really an electrician that makes $75,000, you have set yourself up for failure.
Remember, don’t be too aggressive, expect to ever find perfection or put on a false front.
feel free to leave a comment on this article!
Out in the “real” world, being aggressive, demanding perfection and even little white lies are all ingredients for success. However, those same qualities are killers when you are dating online and off line, too, for that matter.
There is a big difference between being aggressive or confident and being too aggressive, over-confident, or just plain sleazy or slimy from a woman’s point of view. If you push too hard for a face-to-face, you will come across as too aggressive... maybe even, scary.
Try to remember that you are not trying to close a business deal and keep the relationship progressing at a slow but steady pace. Patience is the key.
Nobody is perfect. We are all flawed in some way or another... and that includes you, as well. If you expect the woman to be absolutely perfect and demand that, you will always be disappointed. Demanding perfectionism in your work is one thing.
Demanding perfectionism from a friend, co-worker or a lady you are interested in is not just fine. It won’t happen. Expect flaws and just deal with them. Decide the ones you can live with and those you can’t.
Little white lies and false fronts won’t work. Be honest from the beginning of a relationship. Write your profile. Make it interesting but don’t make false statements.
The truth will come out eventually anyway. If you say you are a lawyer who makes a million bucks a year and you are really an electrician that makes $75,000, you have set yourself up for failure.
Remember, don’t be too aggressive, expect to ever find perfection or put on a false front.
feel free to leave a comment on this article!
Labels: dating, dating blog, do's and don'ts, mistakes, online dating, potential date
Thursday, December 14, 2006
Online Dating is NOT a Contest!
Online dating is not a competition between competing males for the attention of a female. Grow up. Change your mind set from “winning” to “searching”. This isn’t high school.
You are all grown up and have been for quite some time, now. Your attitude is the most important asset you have. You should like yourself and not concentrate of all of the things that aren’t YOUR idea of the perfect guy…the one the all women want.
What is that women want, you ask?
That’s the age old question. Being of the female persuasion myself, I can tell you a few things women want and don’t want.
Women want a man to be confident... NOT an arrogant jerk.
There’s a big difference. You need to like yourself and not be self depreciating but you don’t need to come across like you believe that you are a gift to them from God and have just fallen from the sky. They don’t want you to think that THEY just fell from heaven and are some kind of perfect being, either.
They can’t live up to that expectation.
Women want a communicator. The “strong silent type” really isn’t appealing at all.
They think you probably don’t have an original thought in your head and you probably haven’t heard a word they said, either or that you just don’t care what they said or didn’t even hear what they said.
They want you to be interesting enough to want to know more about you and they want you to think that they are interesting enough to ask intelligent questions about what is important to them, too.
Women do NOT want to be a prize to be won. They don’t want to be a trophy.
They want to be the ONE woman that you want to be with.
You are all grown up and have been for quite some time, now. Your attitude is the most important asset you have. You should like yourself and not concentrate of all of the things that aren’t YOUR idea of the perfect guy…the one the all women want.
What is that women want, you ask?
That’s the age old question. Being of the female persuasion myself, I can tell you a few things women want and don’t want.
Women want a man to be confident... NOT an arrogant jerk.
There’s a big difference. You need to like yourself and not be self depreciating but you don’t need to come across like you believe that you are a gift to them from God and have just fallen from the sky. They don’t want you to think that THEY just fell from heaven and are some kind of perfect being, either.
They can’t live up to that expectation.
Women want a communicator. The “strong silent type” really isn’t appealing at all.
They think you probably don’t have an original thought in your head and you probably haven’t heard a word they said, either or that you just don’t care what they said or didn’t even hear what they said.
They want you to be interesting enough to want to know more about you and they want you to think that they are interesting enough to ask intelligent questions about what is important to them, too.
Women do NOT want to be a prize to be won. They don’t want to be a trophy.
They want to be the ONE woman that you want to be with.
Labels: dating, dating blog, men, online dating, women
Tuesday, November 28, 2006
More Dating Success Tips
Interviews with several happy couples, show that successful dating comes from a combination of small steps that lead up to the dating relationship.
Here are some steps they.
Be Happy
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Examine your mindset. What do you think about? If not happy thoughts, change and stat thinking happier thoughts. You are in charge!
A positive mind and happy, upbeat attitude will help you succeed, while a bad attitude can pull you down.
Don’t Go it alone!
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Seek help and advice from others. Look for local or online support groups, seek self help or inspirational mentors and coaches like Zig Ziglar, who has many books and cassettes available through local libraries.
Listen Faster and Better
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Put the other person’s needs first in a relationship. Hear what they have to say and don’t let your mind wander while the other person is talking, trying to jump in or ahead of the conversation.
Relax and really actively listen.
Be Proactive
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Spend 10 minutes or so a day planning for tomorrow during quite time. Try to cut out unnecessary running around and useless tasks or time-wasters.
Get & Stay Healthy
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Eat right and work in plenty of activity into your day. No need to join a gym. Park farther away during errands. Get up and stretch during the day.
Exercise in front of the television at night instead of eating junk food.
So learn from happy couples. Create your own successful dating relationships!
Until the next time,
Here are some steps they.
Be Happy
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Examine your mindset. What do you think about? If not happy thoughts, change and stat thinking happier thoughts. You are in charge!
A positive mind and happy, upbeat attitude will help you succeed, while a bad attitude can pull you down.
Don’t Go it alone!
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Seek help and advice from others. Look for local or online support groups, seek self help or inspirational mentors and coaches like Zig Ziglar, who has many books and cassettes available through local libraries.
Listen Faster and Better
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Put the other person’s needs first in a relationship. Hear what they have to say and don’t let your mind wander while the other person is talking, trying to jump in or ahead of the conversation.
Relax and really actively listen.
Be Proactive
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Spend 10 minutes or so a day planning for tomorrow during quite time. Try to cut out unnecessary running around and useless tasks or time-wasters.
Get & Stay Healthy
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Eat right and work in plenty of activity into your day. No need to join a gym. Park farther away during errands. Get up and stretch during the day.
Exercise in front of the television at night instead of eating junk food.
So learn from happy couples. Create your own successful dating relationships!
Until the next time,
Labels: couples, dating, dating blog, online dating, relationship
Tuesday, November 21, 2006
Hot Dating Advice
Dating services often post tips on their websites for successful relationship building. So rev up your love life with a coupe of hot tips from the dating service gurus.
Avoid stress when possible.
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If you run into someone who takes the opposite opinion to every one you present or is argumentative; i.e. seems to like to fight, for example, move on and seek more even toned relationships.
Listen to your body and when you start feeling overwhelmed, stop and take charge.
Continue Learning.
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Many people you run into will be changing their lifestyles, jumping back into single-hood after a divorce or bad relationship. They’ll be trying new things, gaining new self-confidence, growing from past behaviors that no longer work for them.
Jump in there, too, and join them in continuing your own education. You don’t necessarily need to get formal, like return college. But read more in your fields of interest.
Subscribe to eZines in your niches. And get up to speed with the latest local news and scene so that you can have plenty to discuss with your dates.
So boost your dating power by reviving up your engine. De-stress and stay fresh!
Until the next time!
Avoid stress when possible.
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If you run into someone who takes the opposite opinion to every one you present or is argumentative; i.e. seems to like to fight, for example, move on and seek more even toned relationships.
Listen to your body and when you start feeling overwhelmed, stop and take charge.
Continue Learning.
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Many people you run into will be changing their lifestyles, jumping back into single-hood after a divorce or bad relationship. They’ll be trying new things, gaining new self-confidence, growing from past behaviors that no longer work for them.
Jump in there, too, and join them in continuing your own education. You don’t necessarily need to get formal, like return college. But read more in your fields of interest.
Subscribe to eZines in your niches. And get up to speed with the latest local news and scene so that you can have plenty to discuss with your dates.
So boost your dating power by reviving up your engine. De-stress and stay fresh!
Until the next time!
Labels: advice, dating, dating blog, love, relationship
Tuesday, November 14, 2006
Dating Tips
Here are some basic tips to help develop better relationships while dating. Try one or two, then add others and watch your relationships chart better courses.
Be Responsible and Alter-Abled
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Many famous actors, music artists, inventors, etc., had special challenges ranging from learning disabilities to physical disabilities. For example, Beethoven was born deaf, yet went on to become one of the world’s greatest composers. And Joni Erickson, paralyzed from the neck down, learned to paint with her mouth. If you are faced with a special challenge of your own, get help and discover your own unique alter-abilities.
Push Past Fears
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Don’t let them paralyze you. Many out there dating are afraid of meeting new people. Join the club. And many fear getting close, losing someone, building relationships long term, etc.
Grab a journal, write out your fears, then read about others who have had similar experiences and how they overcame them. Jot down ways to overcome yours and get moving ahead.
Be Good to Yourself
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Reward yourself for learning how to date online and taking the plunge and signing up for a dating service. Stick to a budget, and don’t go overboard. Even the smallest of budgets can squeeze in bubble bath for a relaxing soak, for instance.
So take care while dating – of you and your date. Borrow music from the local library and sing along while you journal and plan for a happier tomorrow!
Until the next time!
Live love Learn
Be Responsible and Alter-Abled
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Many famous actors, music artists, inventors, etc., had special challenges ranging from learning disabilities to physical disabilities. For example, Beethoven was born deaf, yet went on to become one of the world’s greatest composers. And Joni Erickson, paralyzed from the neck down, learned to paint with her mouth. If you are faced with a special challenge of your own, get help and discover your own unique alter-abilities.
Push Past Fears
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Don’t let them paralyze you. Many out there dating are afraid of meeting new people. Join the club. And many fear getting close, losing someone, building relationships long term, etc.
Grab a journal, write out your fears, then read about others who have had similar experiences and how they overcame them. Jot down ways to overcome yours and get moving ahead.
Be Good to Yourself
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Reward yourself for learning how to date online and taking the plunge and signing up for a dating service. Stick to a budget, and don’t go overboard. Even the smallest of budgets can squeeze in bubble bath for a relaxing soak, for instance.
So take care while dating – of you and your date. Borrow music from the local library and sing along while you journal and plan for a happier tomorrow!
Until the next time!
Live love Learn
Labels: advice, dating, dating blog, online dating, relationships, tips
Monday, November 13, 2006
Dating Success Tips
Successful dating comes from a combination of small steps that lead up to the dating relationship.
Based upon interviews with several happy couples who met online, here are what they advise to get the most out of your dating experience.
Move Past the Past
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Everyone has failures or mistakes from the past, be it a failed relationship, career choice, educational goal or whatever. To become successful, you need to learn from your past, value those difficult lessons but do not dwell on them. Instead, simply move forward and make better, more educated decisions.
Don’t Give Up Dreams
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You need to have dreams and aspirations. Be honest with yourself as to what you want out of life and what you want to give of your life. Allow your mind to dream and think big - -and keep at it, persevere. You may have to test different dating sites, date several people. So keep at your dreams, even when it becomes challenging.
Grasp Change
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You have a choice in life to accept many things in your life or change them. For example, if you feel inferior because you never completed college, go back and finish. Ditto with technology. Don’t understand emailing attachments, learn. Ditto with relationships. Forget about staying in abusive situations. Take charge, get help and change your environment. If your circumstances lower the chances of success, change them.
So learn from the pros. Take charge and create your own successful dating relationships!
Until then...
Sincerely,
Ticket4one.com
Based upon interviews with several happy couples who met online, here are what they advise to get the most out of your dating experience.
Move Past the Past
-------------------
Everyone has failures or mistakes from the past, be it a failed relationship, career choice, educational goal or whatever. To become successful, you need to learn from your past, value those difficult lessons but do not dwell on them. Instead, simply move forward and make better, more educated decisions.
Don’t Give Up Dreams
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You need to have dreams and aspirations. Be honest with yourself as to what you want out of life and what you want to give of your life. Allow your mind to dream and think big - -and keep at it, persevere. You may have to test different dating sites, date several people. So keep at your dreams, even when it becomes challenging.
Grasp Change
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You have a choice in life to accept many things in your life or change them. For example, if you feel inferior because you never completed college, go back and finish. Ditto with technology. Don’t understand emailing attachments, learn. Ditto with relationships. Forget about staying in abusive situations. Take charge, get help and change your environment. If your circumstances lower the chances of success, change them.
So learn from the pros. Take charge and create your own successful dating relationships!
Until then...
Sincerely,
Ticket4one.com
Labels: advice, dating, dating blog, online dating, successful dating, tips
Wednesday, November 08, 2006
Online Flirting – A New Art Form
Many of the same things work for online flirting that work for “brick and mortar” flirting and all relationships begin with successful flirting.
Flirting is an art that requires oozing confidence without being OTT. If you go too far, she will label you “slimy” If you don’t go far enough, she will label you “wimpy”.
So how do you achieve that point half way between slimy and wimpy and do it online without using eye contact or body language?
All you have is a computer an internet connection and membership in an online dating site, right?
1. Have fun! Be light-hearted, funny and entertaining. Make her eager to talk to you again. Flirting is playful.
2. Ooze confidence. Successful flirts have a positive outlook on life. You need to transmit the “feel good” factor. An optimistic attitude attracts females like honey attracts flies.
3. 3. Compliment her…and do it often and sincerely. Nothing opens doors like making her feel good about herself. She will want to spend more time with you and if she pays you a compliment say “thank you”. Do Not be self depreciating.
4. Listen…listen….listen. Pay attention to what she says and ask appropriate questions. Get her to open up and talk about herself. Make her feel like she is interesting and that you are interested in her. Works wonders!
5. Don’t be rude. Flirting does not include being sexually explicit nor taking offence if the lady isn’t responding to you. If she isn’t interested, take the hint and move on to the next prospect. If you get a lot of rejections, you should probably consider a different approach.
6. Send an email after you chat. This ranks right up there with sending a thank you note for a gift and it is vital to successful flirting.
Don’t try to go too fast. Flirting is the first step to a successful relationship.
Until the next time!
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Flirting is an art that requires oozing confidence without being OTT. If you go too far, she will label you “slimy” If you don’t go far enough, she will label you “wimpy”.
So how do you achieve that point half way between slimy and wimpy and do it online without using eye contact or body language?
All you have is a computer an internet connection and membership in an online dating site, right?
1. Have fun! Be light-hearted, funny and entertaining. Make her eager to talk to you again. Flirting is playful.
2. Ooze confidence. Successful flirts have a positive outlook on life. You need to transmit the “feel good” factor. An optimistic attitude attracts females like honey attracts flies.
3. 3. Compliment her…and do it often and sincerely. Nothing opens doors like making her feel good about herself. She will want to spend more time with you and if she pays you a compliment say “thank you”. Do Not be self depreciating.
4. Listen…listen….listen. Pay attention to what she says and ask appropriate questions. Get her to open up and talk about herself. Make her feel like she is interesting and that you are interested in her. Works wonders!
5. Don’t be rude. Flirting does not include being sexually explicit nor taking offence if the lady isn’t responding to you. If she isn’t interested, take the hint and move on to the next prospect. If you get a lot of rejections, you should probably consider a different approach.
6. Send an email after you chat. This ranks right up there with sending a thank you note for a gift and it is vital to successful flirting.
Don’t try to go too fast. Flirting is the first step to a successful relationship.
Until the next time!
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Please feel free to add this article to your website all we ask in return is that you post a link back to our website http://www.ticket4one.com
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Labels: dating, dating blog, online, online dating, online flirting
Tuesday, June 13, 2006
Dating Online Profile Security
Dating online is becoming more and more popular, with people from all over the world logging online to search for a soul mate in cyberspace. However, like all other businesses that are conducted online, hackers are always out there to track you down for your personal information. Here some sharp tips to protect yourself from any attempts of having your personal information stolen and abused online.
Ok so you have found your chat room, dating site, that matches your interest, introduce yourself with information that you know people cannot trace back to you, Leave things in a more general perspective. NEVER write your phone number, email address, real name, home address anywhere on the site where other members can see it. You only need to write your email address for the dating sites administrator to verify who you are but after that, KEEP IT TO YOURSELF. Wait until you have started chatting with someone whom you truly click with and have spoken to for a while.
Join the chat room regularly start to form friendships with the regular members there. Again keep your personal email address to yourself until you are certain you want to meet someone from there. Be honest, and be yourself – after all, being natural is what will endear you to a particular mate.
Once you have made up your mind to start emailing someone keep your correspondence limited until you get to know the person well enough to feel comfortable sharing your phone number and talking for the first time. If you need a good icebreaker, start off the chat by talking about the website or chat room where you met and any special interests that brought you two together.
If you are interested in a few online people, consider setting up a free e-mail account like hotmail or yahoo to share information with each other.
Avoid extremely large, public chat rooms. A lot of people visit these chat rooms to see what they can get away with. Try focusing on smaller, targeted websites or chat rooms that come from a reputable site you can trust.
If you decide to meet each other in person, choose a neutral, public place. You may even choose a town or city that’s not the same as the one where you live. Restaurants, parks, theaters and other public places where people gather often are a good place to start. Alternately, you could choose to attend a special event in your area together, perhaps a concert, festival or fair.
If you follow these tips, chances are you will have a great time with your online dating. Remember to be honest and be yourself! If you do, chances are that you will find that perfect special someone who enjoys you for who you are.
Ok so you have found your chat room, dating site, that matches your interest, introduce yourself with information that you know people cannot trace back to you, Leave things in a more general perspective. NEVER write your phone number, email address, real name, home address anywhere on the site where other members can see it. You only need to write your email address for the dating sites administrator to verify who you are but after that, KEEP IT TO YOURSELF. Wait until you have started chatting with someone whom you truly click with and have spoken to for a while.
Join the chat room regularly start to form friendships with the regular members there. Again keep your personal email address to yourself until you are certain you want to meet someone from there. Be honest, and be yourself – after all, being natural is what will endear you to a particular mate.
Once you have made up your mind to start emailing someone keep your correspondence limited until you get to know the person well enough to feel comfortable sharing your phone number and talking for the first time. If you need a good icebreaker, start off the chat by talking about the website or chat room where you met and any special interests that brought you two together.
If you are interested in a few online people, consider setting up a free e-mail account like hotmail or yahoo to share information with each other.
Avoid extremely large, public chat rooms. A lot of people visit these chat rooms to see what they can get away with. Try focusing on smaller, targeted websites or chat rooms that come from a reputable site you can trust.
If you decide to meet each other in person, choose a neutral, public place. You may even choose a town or city that’s not the same as the one where you live. Restaurants, parks, theaters and other public places where people gather often are a good place to start. Alternately, you could choose to attend a special event in your area together, perhaps a concert, festival or fair.
If you follow these tips, chances are you will have a great time with your online dating. Remember to be honest and be yourself! If you do, chances are that you will find that perfect special someone who enjoys you for who you are.
Labels: dating, dating blog, online, online dating, security
Wednesday, June 07, 2006
Dating sites review
Ticket4one dating sites review: Thinking about trying Online Dating but not really sure if it’s the right thing for you? I have been surfing the net for years wondering in and out of websites cruising for the right one and the right people. Finally I have found my wife to be and i am here to share with you my finest secrets on how to use Internet dating to its maximum and find your soul mate.
If your trying online dating or just about to take that exciting plunge into finding your souls companion online. Then you must read this free Dating info article first. I am going to save you years off your search and teach you how to avoid the thousands of annoying fake profiles currently online for free. THAT’S RIGHT FREE!
Ok so your tired of sitting at home waiting for Mr. or Mrs. right to walk in through your lounge room door and sweep you off your feet. And you have probably been wondering where people go to meet other singles that think about life the way you do. Night clubs are cool and full of a lot of singles, but its really hard to meet genuine heart felt people that have a dozen beers under their belt.
You are an amazing human being and you should wake up everyday and tell yourself that. There are literally millions of single people out there that are just dying inside for someone to just talk to. A lot of these singles have already joined the online dating scene and often log onto their favorite site to just say hi to people after a long day at work.
There are loads of websites on the market that offer everything. Some free, and others that are very expensive. So what’s the main difference between them? and how can you choose which ones are better suited to you? To be honest I believe I would be a member of at leaast 10 dating sites. And let me say that at least 9 of them are garbage. Some Great site Qualities to look for when trying online dating:
Opening of the site is professional
Members pics on front page
Choose a site that isn’t afraid to show how many members it has
Often a site with fewer numbers gives you greater chances to be noticed by others
Choose a site that you can join for free before you have to pay for sending emails.
Look for a description of what the site offers before joining; make sure it’s not a porn site.
Professional Dating sites are by order of the law, under strict guidelines in regards to your personal information are therefore prohibited from distributing any of your personal information onto second or third parties. As a rule of thumb its always good practice to read their terms of use and privacy policies first. If a site doesn’t have both of these DON’T JOIN. Normally you will find these tags at the bottom of the page.
Sitting at home or at work will not improve your chances of finding that someone special. If you were going to buy a car would you be more inclined to buy a car sitting in the back of someone’s garage not advertised, or do you think that you would more then likely buy a car from a car yard. You know the one with the red display flags hanging all over it. That’s right, you would definitely buy the car from the car yard cause it’s advertised. The same thing applies to your dating life.
Once you have joined a website don’t pay right away for email usage. Upload a picture if you can, it increases your chances of people emailing you. Search for other member’s profiles and send Virtual kisses first. Once you can see other members are interested in you and that they are roughly the type of people you want to get to know then upgrade for a paid membership and begin communicating.
Now you have all the tools needed for a successful online dating campaign. Before you read this article you were probably a bit apprehensive about joining a dating site but think about all the things you just learnt.
How to find real people
How to pick a professional site
How to play the numbers game successfully
How to get noticed quicker
How to test a site before you buy in
The importance of advertising yourself
Online dating security
How to find your real soul mate
Trying online dating is easy Ticket4one.com is one the most trustworthy sources of online participants available to daters. Full of events and activities worldwide set up to bring people like you together. Our events and activities are similar to speed dating events only we don’t do it at a bar or restaurant. We actually get out in the real world and do things like 4x4 tours, Mystery bus tours, learn2surf, poker nights, self-help and motivational course and many many more. Our statement is “ Real events for real people. To meet others in a No obligation stress free environment.”
If your trying online dating or just about to take that exciting plunge into finding your souls companion online. Then you must read this free Dating info article first. I am going to save you years off your search and teach you how to avoid the thousands of annoying fake profiles currently online for free. THAT’S RIGHT FREE!
Ok so your tired of sitting at home waiting for Mr. or Mrs. right to walk in through your lounge room door and sweep you off your feet. And you have probably been wondering where people go to meet other singles that think about life the way you do. Night clubs are cool and full of a lot of singles, but its really hard to meet genuine heart felt people that have a dozen beers under their belt.
You are an amazing human being and you should wake up everyday and tell yourself that. There are literally millions of single people out there that are just dying inside for someone to just talk to. A lot of these singles have already joined the online dating scene and often log onto their favorite site to just say hi to people after a long day at work.
There are loads of websites on the market that offer everything. Some free, and others that are very expensive. So what’s the main difference between them? and how can you choose which ones are better suited to you? To be honest I believe I would be a member of at leaast 10 dating sites. And let me say that at least 9 of them are garbage. Some Great site Qualities to look for when trying online dating:
Opening of the site is professional
Members pics on front page
Choose a site that isn’t afraid to show how many members it has
Often a site with fewer numbers gives you greater chances to be noticed by others
Choose a site that you can join for free before you have to pay for sending emails.
Look for a description of what the site offers before joining; make sure it’s not a porn site.
Professional Dating sites are by order of the law, under strict guidelines in regards to your personal information are therefore prohibited from distributing any of your personal information onto second or third parties. As a rule of thumb its always good practice to read their terms of use and privacy policies first. If a site doesn’t have both of these DON’T JOIN. Normally you will find these tags at the bottom of the page.
Sitting at home or at work will not improve your chances of finding that someone special. If you were going to buy a car would you be more inclined to buy a car sitting in the back of someone’s garage not advertised, or do you think that you would more then likely buy a car from a car yard. You know the one with the red display flags hanging all over it. That’s right, you would definitely buy the car from the car yard cause it’s advertised. The same thing applies to your dating life.
Once you have joined a website don’t pay right away for email usage. Upload a picture if you can, it increases your chances of people emailing you. Search for other member’s profiles and send Virtual kisses first. Once you can see other members are interested in you and that they are roughly the type of people you want to get to know then upgrade for a paid membership and begin communicating.
Now you have all the tools needed for a successful online dating campaign. Before you read this article you were probably a bit apprehensive about joining a dating site but think about all the things you just learnt.
How to find real people
How to pick a professional site
How to play the numbers game successfully
How to get noticed quicker
How to test a site before you buy in
The importance of advertising yourself
Online dating security
How to find your real soul mate
Trying online dating is easy Ticket4one.com is one the most trustworthy sources of online participants available to daters. Full of events and activities worldwide set up to bring people like you together. Our events and activities are similar to speed dating events only we don’t do it at a bar or restaurant. We actually get out in the real world and do things like 4x4 tours, Mystery bus tours, learn2surf, poker nights, self-help and motivational course and many many more. Our statement is “ Real events for real people. To meet others in a No obligation stress free environment.”
Labels: dating, dating blog, dating site, online dating, review
Tuesday, May 30, 2006
Free Dating Online
Free online dating is everywhere. If your just about to take that exciting plunge into finding your souls companion online. Then you must read this free info article first. I am going to save you years off your search and teach you how to avoid the thousands of annoying fake profiles currently online for free. THAT’S RIGHT FREE!
I have been surfing the net for years wondering in and out of websites cruising for the right one and the right people. Finally I have found my wife to be and i am here to share with you my finest secrets on how to use Free Online dating to its maximum and find your soul mate for little or No cost.
There are loads of websites on the market that offer everything. Some free and others that are very expensive. So what’s the main difference between them? And how can you choose which ones are better suited to you? To be honest I believe I would be a member of at leaast 10 dating sites. And let me say that at least 9 of them are garbage. Some Great site Qualities to look for when finding dating sites:
Opening of the site is professional.
Members pics on front page.
Choose a site that isn’t afraid to show how many members it has
Often a site with fewer numbers gives you greater chances to be noticed by others.
Look for a description of what the site offers before joining; make sure it’s not a porn site.
The problem with the majority of free online dating sites is they attract a huge number of members from poor foreign countries. Often these members want to try and send you a scam offering huge financial returns for helping them out. And the whole time all they really want is your banking details so they can rob you blind. I strongly suggest staying away from these sites. Find a site that charges very minimal rates to email others. And free to join. IT’S SAFER
Once you have joined a website don’t pay right away for email usage. Upload a picture if you can, it increases your chances of people emailing you. Search for other member’s profiles and send Virtual kisses first. Once you can see other members are interested in you and that they are roughly the type of people you want to get to know then upgrade for a paid membership and begin communicating.
Now you have all the tools needed for a successful online dating campaign. Before you read this article you were probably a bit apprehensive about joining a dating site but think about all the things you just learnt.
How to find real people
How to pick a professional site
How to play the numbers game successfully
How to get noticed quicker
How to test a site before you buy in
The importance of advertising yourself
Online dating security
How to find your real soul mate
What kind of sites to avoid
Free online dating is easy. Ticket4one.com is one the most trustworthy sources of online participants available to daters. Full of events and activities worldwide set up to bring people like you together. Our events and activities are similar to speed dating events only we don’t do it at a bar or restaurant. We actually get out in the real world and do things like 4x4 tours, Mystery bus tours, learn2surf, poker nights, self-help and motivational course and many more. Our statement is “ Real events for real people. To meet others in a No obligation stress free environment.”http://www.ticket4one.com
I have been surfing the net for years wondering in and out of websites cruising for the right one and the right people. Finally I have found my wife to be and i am here to share with you my finest secrets on how to use Free Online dating to its maximum and find your soul mate for little or No cost.
There are loads of websites on the market that offer everything. Some free and others that are very expensive. So what’s the main difference between them? And how can you choose which ones are better suited to you? To be honest I believe I would be a member of at leaast 10 dating sites. And let me say that at least 9 of them are garbage. Some Great site Qualities to look for when finding dating sites:
Opening of the site is professional.
Members pics on front page.
Choose a site that isn’t afraid to show how many members it has
Often a site with fewer numbers gives you greater chances to be noticed by others.
Look for a description of what the site offers before joining; make sure it’s not a porn site.
The problem with the majority of free online dating sites is they attract a huge number of members from poor foreign countries. Often these members want to try and send you a scam offering huge financial returns for helping them out. And the whole time all they really want is your banking details so they can rob you blind. I strongly suggest staying away from these sites. Find a site that charges very minimal rates to email others. And free to join. IT’S SAFER
Once you have joined a website don’t pay right away for email usage. Upload a picture if you can, it increases your chances of people emailing you. Search for other member’s profiles and send Virtual kisses first. Once you can see other members are interested in you and that they are roughly the type of people you want to get to know then upgrade for a paid membership and begin communicating.
Now you have all the tools needed for a successful online dating campaign. Before you read this article you were probably a bit apprehensive about joining a dating site but think about all the things you just learnt.
How to find real people
How to pick a professional site
How to play the numbers game successfully
How to get noticed quicker
How to test a site before you buy in
The importance of advertising yourself
Online dating security
How to find your real soul mate
What kind of sites to avoid
Free online dating is easy. Ticket4one.com is one the most trustworthy sources of online participants available to daters. Full of events and activities worldwide set up to bring people like you together. Our events and activities are similar to speed dating events only we don’t do it at a bar or restaurant. We actually get out in the real world and do things like 4x4 tours, Mystery bus tours, learn2surf, poker nights, self-help and motivational course and many more. Our statement is “ Real events for real people. To meet others in a No obligation stress free environment.”http://www.ticket4one.com
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Monday, May 22, 2006
long distance relationships
Long distance relationships and some helpful tips to get through the tough times of being so far away from a loved one.
If your in a Long Distance relationship or thinking about entering one here is all the help you will need to make sure that your relationship stands the test of time.
With all the high tech advances going on in the word today, long distance love is actually starting to work. There are loads of various online companies with free software that will keep you in very close contact with anyone any where in the world, Such as:
Skype, Skype is a computer program that can be used to make free voice calls over the Internet to anyone else who is also using Skype. It's free and considered easy to download and use, and works with most computers. Once you download, register and install the software, you'll need to plug in a headset, speakers or USB phone to start using Skype.
MSN Messenger, MSN Messenger is another source similar to skype and only its more personalized so that you only chat with the people you invite into your system. MSN Messenger also offers web cam viewing and live video all you have to do is download and add the email addresses of the people you wish to communicate with. Yahoo also has a version of this kind of software, I have used all three from time to time and find that for broadband users that Skype is the easiest and the best quality.
If you’re in a long distance relationship, and for the purpose of this article I am going to example a relationship of 2 people on other sides of the world to each other. Send an email so that your partner wakes up to you first thing in the mornings. It’s always nice to wake up to a loving thought in the morning.
Mobile phones are expensive to use and not everyone has the money to talk on them every night but send an SMS message from time to time, let your partner know that you always have them on your mind.
Time differences are a hazard but they can also make you look like a superstar. Every women loves waking up to a romantic poem sent to her phone when she was asleep or even an email.
If you’re just starting a long distance relationship learn all the important dates and write them down like birthdays etc.. Dating someone on the other side of the world does not mean they don’t get older.
If your doing something special yourself make sure you take a few pictures and send them to your partner they will appreciate seeing your face. And again will conform in their mind that they are important to you.
The more you can make your partner feel like they are only living just down the road from you the better chances you have of making your new relationship work. Its hard being so far away from someone you love but it’s not impossible. Use technology to its fullest and even send each other small gifts through the post office. The more personal things seem for both of you the more your going to succeed.
Long distance relationships do work and with today’s technologies available for free. Seeing someone face to face is as easy as turning on your computer and saying hello. Download a couple of the programs I have suggested, you want be disappointed it’s free easy and they all come with great help instructions.Ticket4one
If your in a Long Distance relationship or thinking about entering one here is all the help you will need to make sure that your relationship stands the test of time.
With all the high tech advances going on in the word today, long distance love is actually starting to work. There are loads of various online companies with free software that will keep you in very close contact with anyone any where in the world, Such as:
Skype, Skype is a computer program that can be used to make free voice calls over the Internet to anyone else who is also using Skype. It's free and considered easy to download and use, and works with most computers. Once you download, register and install the software, you'll need to plug in a headset, speakers or USB phone to start using Skype.
MSN Messenger, MSN Messenger is another source similar to skype and only its more personalized so that you only chat with the people you invite into your system. MSN Messenger also offers web cam viewing and live video all you have to do is download and add the email addresses of the people you wish to communicate with. Yahoo also has a version of this kind of software, I have used all three from time to time and find that for broadband users that Skype is the easiest and the best quality.
If you’re in a long distance relationship, and for the purpose of this article I am going to example a relationship of 2 people on other sides of the world to each other. Send an email so that your partner wakes up to you first thing in the mornings. It’s always nice to wake up to a loving thought in the morning.
Mobile phones are expensive to use and not everyone has the money to talk on them every night but send an SMS message from time to time, let your partner know that you always have them on your mind.
Time differences are a hazard but they can also make you look like a superstar. Every women loves waking up to a romantic poem sent to her phone when she was asleep or even an email.
If you’re just starting a long distance relationship learn all the important dates and write them down like birthdays etc.. Dating someone on the other side of the world does not mean they don’t get older.
If your doing something special yourself make sure you take a few pictures and send them to your partner they will appreciate seeing your face. And again will conform in their mind that they are important to you.
The more you can make your partner feel like they are only living just down the road from you the better chances you have of making your new relationship work. Its hard being so far away from someone you love but it’s not impossible. Use technology to its fullest and even send each other small gifts through the post office. The more personal things seem for both of you the more your going to succeed.
Long distance relationships do work and with today’s technologies available for free. Seeing someone face to face is as easy as turning on your computer and saying hello. Download a couple of the programs I have suggested, you want be disappointed it’s free easy and they all come with great help instructions.Ticket4one
Labels: dating, dating blog, dating site, long distance, long distance relationships, online dating, relationships
Friday, May 19, 2006
love in the new millenium
Romance in the new world is currently undergoing a total face lift. Embracing technology via the Internet is proving extremely popular. We all have our fantasies of our ideal man/women. Through online dating meeting Mr or Mrs right is very easy. Getting to know wether someone is right or wrong for you is unbelievable quick. Leaving you a lot more time to find the person that is your dream soul mate. Online dating really allows you to get to know someone a lot better before setting up a meeting.
Dating sites are professionally managed with great care given to make it a safe experience. Searching for the ideal partner is streamlined. You fill in your requirements and the site will search its database to find you the most suitable partners matching your criteria. All you need to do is to look through the lists, read their profiles, and start contacting them through e-mails or "chat" services provided. Once you have established a mutual friendship with someone online its then time to proceed to step 2 and meet your newest friend face to face. Studies show, the success rate is 94% Compatibility. With more than 700 dating sites throughout the World Wide Web. The statistics of love speak for themselves.
Professionally managed dating sites offer free articles that discuss different aspects on how to go about dating online. Majority of members using online dating techniques are tech savvy before they join. Those who are new to the world of online are generally helped through an online support center offered by the site of choice. And anyone that wants to get to know you will always be more then accommodating to help you through this learning curve.
Dating Online is a stress free and affordable way to meet thousands of people, which is always a bonus when looking for Mr or Mrs right. You set the pace, boundaries, decide whether you are looking for a long-term relationship or a casual one. You can access the site anytime and from anyplace. 24 hours a day and seven days a week the choice is yours.
Find your hearts truest companion by using online dating sites. I found my wife online, a woman who I would have thought was well out of my league, a woman I could have only dreamed of, that is until I went online. We were from two totally different parts of the world. The possibility of me ever meeting her in the real world was 0% I wakeup every morning, look across at her and laugh to myself, thinking " this has got to be a dream" but it's a dream I never wake from and I'm not the only one that has had this kind of good fortune. 84 million people are online looking for love worldwide everyday. Online dating sites are safe and there is nothing to be afraid of. Ask around and you will find that many of your friends or colleagues have been quite successful at online dating. http://www.ticket4one.com
Dating sites are professionally managed with great care given to make it a safe experience. Searching for the ideal partner is streamlined. You fill in your requirements and the site will search its database to find you the most suitable partners matching your criteria. All you need to do is to look through the lists, read their profiles, and start contacting them through e-mails or "chat" services provided. Once you have established a mutual friendship with someone online its then time to proceed to step 2 and meet your newest friend face to face. Studies show, the success rate is 94% Compatibility. With more than 700 dating sites throughout the World Wide Web. The statistics of love speak for themselves.
Professionally managed dating sites offer free articles that discuss different aspects on how to go about dating online. Majority of members using online dating techniques are tech savvy before they join. Those who are new to the world of online are generally helped through an online support center offered by the site of choice. And anyone that wants to get to know you will always be more then accommodating to help you through this learning curve.
Dating Online is a stress free and affordable way to meet thousands of people, which is always a bonus when looking for Mr or Mrs right. You set the pace, boundaries, decide whether you are looking for a long-term relationship or a casual one. You can access the site anytime and from anyplace. 24 hours a day and seven days a week the choice is yours.
Find your hearts truest companion by using online dating sites. I found my wife online, a woman who I would have thought was well out of my league, a woman I could have only dreamed of, that is until I went online. We were from two totally different parts of the world. The possibility of me ever meeting her in the real world was 0% I wakeup every morning, look across at her and laugh to myself, thinking " this has got to be a dream" but it's a dream I never wake from and I'm not the only one that has had this kind of good fortune. 84 million people are online looking for love worldwide everyday. Online dating sites are safe and there is nothing to be afraid of. Ask around and you will find that many of your friends or colleagues have been quite successful at online dating. http://www.ticket4one.com
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Speed dating events
Speed Dating Events have been growing in population since early 1999. Wondering where you go to meet people with the same interests as you? Tired of the bar scene and weary of blind dates, speed dating offers a fun and safe alternative.Rabbi Yaacov Deyo established speed dating in 1999, based on a Jewish tradition of chaperoned gatherings of young Jewish singles.
Originally intended as a way of keeping Jewish singles from marrying outside the faith; the speed-dating movement is now flourishing in communities throughout the world.The old speed dating methods: How it works- a group of singles gathers at a cafe or similar venue. Armed with a nametag, a scorecard and their sparkling personality, couples are paired up to begin their first date. They are allowed to discuss anything, except their careers, or where the live.Following seven minutes of conversation, a bell is rung, and the men move on to meet their next date.
Think of it as a flirt's version of musical chairs.Following each date, participants mark on a card whether they would have an interest in meeting their date again. If a mutual interest is noted, speed-dating organizers provide each party with the other's phone number.
Ticket4one.com’s Speed Dating: A group of singles selects a speed dating event such as Mystery bus tours, 4x4 tours, poker nights, learn to sail, cooking etc. from the “events &r Courses “ page at ticket4one.com and is given a nametag, couples are paired up ate the events and constantly broken up and moved onto the next partner. At the end of the event the participants then head back to the website and submit there interests in members they just met. When a mutual interest is registered both participants are informed via email of their compatibility.Meeting fresh and interesting people has never been easier or safer. You are in control the whole time. There is no obligation from anyone to disclose their personal information. Speed dating has proven to be fairly successful, with approximately half of all participants coming away with a potential match. Take a look at Ticket4one.com’s latest events and join for Free lifetime membership.http://www.ticket4one.com
Originally intended as a way of keeping Jewish singles from marrying outside the faith; the speed-dating movement is now flourishing in communities throughout the world.The old speed dating methods: How it works- a group of singles gathers at a cafe or similar venue. Armed with a nametag, a scorecard and their sparkling personality, couples are paired up to begin their first date. They are allowed to discuss anything, except their careers, or where the live.Following seven minutes of conversation, a bell is rung, and the men move on to meet their next date.
Think of it as a flirt's version of musical chairs.Following each date, participants mark on a card whether they would have an interest in meeting their date again. If a mutual interest is noted, speed-dating organizers provide each party with the other's phone number.
Ticket4one.com’s Speed Dating: A group of singles selects a speed dating event such as Mystery bus tours, 4x4 tours, poker nights, learn to sail, cooking etc. from the “events &r Courses “ page at ticket4one.com and is given a nametag, couples are paired up ate the events and constantly broken up and moved onto the next partner. At the end of the event the participants then head back to the website and submit there interests in members they just met. When a mutual interest is registered both participants are informed via email of their compatibility.Meeting fresh and interesting people has never been easier or safer. You are in control the whole time. There is no obligation from anyone to disclose their personal information. Speed dating has proven to be fairly successful, with approximately half of all participants coming away with a potential match. Take a look at Ticket4one.com’s latest events and join for Free lifetime membership.http://www.ticket4one.com
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Thursday, May 11, 2006
Online Dating & Statistics
Online Dating: Romance in the new world is currently undergoing a total facelift. Embracing technology via the Internet is proving extremely popular. We all have our fantasies of our ideal man/women. Through online dating meeting Mr or Mrs right is very easy. Getting to know wether someone is right or wrong for you is unbelievable quick. Leaving you a lot more time to find the person that is your dream soul mate. Online dating really allows you to get to know someone a lot better before setting up a meeting.
Dating sites are professionally managed with great care given to make it a safe experience. Searching for the ideal partner is streamlined. You fill in your requirements and the site will search its database to find you the most suitable partners matching your criteria. All you need to do is to look through the lists, read their profiles, and start contacting them through e-mails or "chat" services provided. Once you have established a mutual friendship with someone online its then time to proceed to step 2 and meet your newest friend face to face. Studies show, the success rate is 94% Compatibility. With more than 700 dating sites throughout the World Wide Web. The statistics of love speak for themselves.
Professionally managed dating sites offer free articles that discuss different aspects on how to go about dating online. Majority of members using online dating techniques are tech savvy before they join. Those who are new to the world of online are generally helped through an online support centre offered by the site of choice. And anyone that wants to get to know you will always be more then accommodating to help you through this learning curve.
Online dating is a stress free and affordable way to meet thousands of people, which is always a bonus when looking for Mr or Mrs right. You set the pace, boundaries, decide whether you are looking for a long-term relationship or a casual one. You can access the site anytime and from anyplace. 24 hours a day and seven days a week the choice is yours.
Find your hearts truest companion by using online dating sites. I found my wife online, a woman who I would have thought was well out of my league, a woman I could have only dreamed of, that is until I went online. We were from two totally different parts of the world. The possibility of me ever meeting her in the real world was 0% I wakeup every morning, look across at her and laugh to myself, thinking “ this has got to be a dream” but it’s a dream I never wake from and I’m not the only one that has had this kind of good fortune. 84 million people are online looking for love worldwide everyday. Online dating sites are safe and there is nothing to be afraid of. Ask around and you will find that many of your friends or colleagues have been quite successful at online dating.http://www.ticket4one.com
Dating sites are professionally managed with great care given to make it a safe experience. Searching for the ideal partner is streamlined. You fill in your requirements and the site will search its database to find you the most suitable partners matching your criteria. All you need to do is to look through the lists, read their profiles, and start contacting them through e-mails or "chat" services provided. Once you have established a mutual friendship with someone online its then time to proceed to step 2 and meet your newest friend face to face. Studies show, the success rate is 94% Compatibility. With more than 700 dating sites throughout the World Wide Web. The statistics of love speak for themselves.
Professionally managed dating sites offer free articles that discuss different aspects on how to go about dating online. Majority of members using online dating techniques are tech savvy before they join. Those who are new to the world of online are generally helped through an online support centre offered by the site of choice. And anyone that wants to get to know you will always be more then accommodating to help you through this learning curve.
Online dating is a stress free and affordable way to meet thousands of people, which is always a bonus when looking for Mr or Mrs right. You set the pace, boundaries, decide whether you are looking for a long-term relationship or a casual one. You can access the site anytime and from anyplace. 24 hours a day and seven days a week the choice is yours.
Find your hearts truest companion by using online dating sites. I found my wife online, a woman who I would have thought was well out of my league, a woman I could have only dreamed of, that is until I went online. We were from two totally different parts of the world. The possibility of me ever meeting her in the real world was 0% I wakeup every morning, look across at her and laugh to myself, thinking “ this has got to be a dream” but it’s a dream I never wake from and I’m not the only one that has had this kind of good fortune. 84 million people are online looking for love worldwide everyday. Online dating sites are safe and there is nothing to be afraid of. Ask around and you will find that many of your friends or colleagues have been quite successful at online dating.http://www.ticket4one.com
Labels: dating, dating blog, dating site, online, online dating, statistics
Thursday, May 04, 2006
Online Dating profile do's and don'ts
Online Dating profile: Do's and Don'ts: Creating a great profile means selling your greatest strengths and attributes. Like creating your personal resume. Most reputable online dating sites provide a multiple choice matching as well as a brief description of yourself and what you are looking for. After someone finds his or her "match", it is your description of yourself that makes you shine. So take your time and fill in your description completely, Two to three sentences are considered perfect. You can always come back to your description later to update it People who don't fill out their descriptions properly are not taken seriously and often get passed on for other profiles that look more genuine. Be honest in your ad. Describe yourself accurately and most important honestly in your online dating profile. Include real data like your height, body type, weight and educational background. Show your personality. Talk about hobbies, activities you enjoy, movies, interests, books, or music you enjoy, do you like to travel, (don't disclose your place of employment.... keep it general: I am a nurse, an accountant, etc). Don't give away too much information...just write enough to spark an interested. Leave something to talk about later. Share your thoughts, you don't have to just write facts. Nobody wants to read a profile that's all touchy-feely, Keep your profile alive. Write as if you're talking to your best friend. We want to know more about the Real you like where you're from, what you want from life, what makes you laugh, what you love about life. DON'T focus on only one part of your life: You may love dogs, love to ski, those are great things to mention in your profile. Say something about you, add your personality and humour into what people are reading. Don't try to make false impressions. False impressions will back fire as much as they will in the rest of your life. Relax, and let your true self show through. There are people who will like who you are. Believe in yourself and the fact that you are worthy of that someone special.Keep it all Positive Don't dwell on your problems and limitations. Now is not the time to be talking about why you got divorced, or problems at work. Those are things that you can mention, you can talk about these things once you have gotten to know someoneWhat you are looking for: Keep your options broad. If you write you are looking for the love of your life and nothing less then there is a good chance your going to scare potential candidates away before even talking to them. Remember the majority of relationships you have been in have started from being friends first and then something developed from that so treat your online dating profile the same. Words to Use and Avoid with you online dating profile: Good Words: Affectionate, Likes to cuddle, interested in a committed relationship, sensitive, great cook, romantic, caring, monogamous, down to earth, looking for best friend, educated, sophisticated, loving, generous, cute, reliable, my colleagues describe me as handsome, great legs, petite, curvaceous, hourglass figure, gentleman. Words to Avoid: Here is what NOT to put in a personal on a regular/metro site: Well hung, great in bed, I'd love to satisfy you, sexually insatiable, animal, great lover, oral, fuck, blow, make love, erotic, uninhibited and any other sexual words. If these words want work for you in real life what makes you think they will work online for you. At the end of the day the people your talking to online are the exact same as those you walk past in the streets.http://www.ticket4one.com
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Wednesday, May 03, 2006
Online Dating Answering Emails
Remember that hers/his friends may read your email response as well: He/she may open it at work, or in front of friends. (' We have all shown OUR love letters to friends, haven't we?) So don't write things you will be embarrassed to be confronted with later, like when you meet his/her friends a few months from now. Even in the largest cities, people tend to move in certain social circles. Even in anonymous ads or emails, someone can tell who you are by a just a few things that you write about yourself.Test the water first. If your relationship is moving from friendship to something a little steamier, start introducing your intimate exchanges gradually. Rather than long outpours of your every thought, try something brief, for example. "I was in the middle of work today and I found myself thinking about you in a manner that surprised me. Want to know more?"Respond promptly to all emails or any romantic advances you wish to encourage. It's tough hanging out, wondering whether your message was hit or missed. If you didn’t get a reply, you can revise your response and try again. It might be that your first email didn't even get to the person. It does happen. Or it might be that you just still didn't express yourself properly. Try again, if your second attempt failed, shrug it off, and start searching for someone else again. Most importantly don't take it personally. Keep learning, and keep trying. As with anything else, practice makes perfect. Practice expressing yourself, practice reading thru peoples profiles, and practice getting to know the real you. When you get a reply, try to keep the same conversation running, but don't get too long winded. Talk about what your interests and hobbies are. And ask about her/his interests. Start building the friendship. Never respond to any correspondence that makes you feel uncomfortable. Reputable matchmaking systems always offer you the blocking of unwanted email from other members you don't want to receive from. If you have problems, write to the system administrator about changing your screen name. Report any obscene or Spam E-mails you receive to the system administrator. On non-adult/alternative lifestyles systems, obscenities, foul language, and abusive behaviour are usually reasons for termination in the rules and regulations you agreed to when you sign up. Provide the system administrator with the users details and copy and paste all emails that were sent to you.Never believe everything you read. Online it's very easy to misguide someone via correspondence. Remember that the person on the other end may or mat not be who they say they are. Getting inspired: Writing to someone you don't know is never easy. When you’re in the romantically impaired category, keep trying, don't give up. Online romance correspondence is 50% talent and 50% inspiration." Here are some helpful tips for translating what's in your heart into words in an email:Relax yourself, get in the right mood. Have a glass of wine, play some music. The more you loosen up the easier the right words will come.Write about your feelings, not facts: "I was a little excited to find your email waiting for me when I got home from work.""I noticed that you like surfing. I have 3 boards and can often be found down at xyz beach. I am always looking for someone to surf with."
Answering dating emails is easy and fun, there is no preasure to write everthing down as quck as it comes out of your head. take your time and let the right words flow with ease.follow our guidlines to answering dating emails and i know that you will have alot of success. So log into your free profile at ticket4one.com and start answering dating emails now! http://www.ticket4one.com
Answering dating emails is easy and fun, there is no preasure to write everthing down as quck as it comes out of your head. take your time and let the right words flow with ease.follow our guidlines to answering dating emails and i know that you will have alot of success. So log into your free profile at ticket4one.com and start answering dating emails now! http://www.ticket4one.com
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Tuesday, May 02, 2006
Writing to a Potential Date
Writing to a potential date: Writing that one email that catches the eye of Mr or Mrs right has always been a difficult and sometimes nerve wrecking experience, until now. I have been playing the singles online game for at least 5-6 yrs now. My days are over since I met my wife online but that doesn't mean that I can't pass on my years of knowledge to you. By the time you have finished reading this article you will know exactly what it takes to catch the eye of the one person you want the most.
Email people whose profiles interest you. When you are successful with someone you've met, great. If not, don't despair; thousands of new People are posted every week on dating sites. Even if you have success with one, keep sending emails out and corresponding with several people at the same time. Until you are in a committed relationship, you should always keep your options open.
Creating good first impressions: When it comes to writing that first email, tentatively putting your heart out on the line, many of us get the online equivalent of dry mouth -- or even worse, we say things better said down the line out of nervousness. How do you judge the line between being friendly and over-anxious when writing to a potential date?
Experiment; find a style that works for you. When writing to a potential date use the subject line like a newspaper headline, proofread, and be creative, honest and positive. Avoid anything canned or trite. Pick-up lines don't work online, and you will want make a good first impression, or get a response using one. Firstly your emails should always be individually written and work best when conversational in style. Members can tell when someone is sending a cut and paste of the same thing to everyone. It's usually all about them and says nothing about you, or what they liked about your profile.
Reference something about the recipient's profile. When writing to a potential date remember who your writing to.There has to be something said that interested you? Ask questions and include some brief information about yourself. What common interests do you both share. It's okay to flirt and tease a little during your first contact, but keep it light and friendly. Don't write anything about sex, using any sex related words, or talk about how you are their perfect match or soul mate. You are getting to know a perfect stranger. Again, keep it light and friendly.... as if you were meeting a new colleague that is works with you.
If the email doesn't convey the right message, you may not hear anything back from him/her. Remember you probably aren't the only one that liked him/her. Your email can be one of many. Make what you say stand out. Give him/her reason to write back. Ask questions, and offer to answer questions. This is your big chance to get to know more about each other.
By now you should have a really strong grounding for what it takes to get your email noticed or replied to. These principles do work, I know cause I am now a very happily married man to an amazing women. No tricks, No games just straight out winning tactics http://www.ticket4one.com
Email people whose profiles interest you. When you are successful with someone you've met, great. If not, don't despair; thousands of new People are posted every week on dating sites. Even if you have success with one, keep sending emails out and corresponding with several people at the same time. Until you are in a committed relationship, you should always keep your options open.
Creating good first impressions: When it comes to writing that first email, tentatively putting your heart out on the line, many of us get the online equivalent of dry mouth -- or even worse, we say things better said down the line out of nervousness. How do you judge the line between being friendly and over-anxious when writing to a potential date?
Experiment; find a style that works for you. When writing to a potential date use the subject line like a newspaper headline, proofread, and be creative, honest and positive. Avoid anything canned or trite. Pick-up lines don't work online, and you will want make a good first impression, or get a response using one. Firstly your emails should always be individually written and work best when conversational in style. Members can tell when someone is sending a cut and paste of the same thing to everyone. It's usually all about them and says nothing about you, or what they liked about your profile.
Reference something about the recipient's profile. When writing to a potential date remember who your writing to.There has to be something said that interested you? Ask questions and include some brief information about yourself. What common interests do you both share. It's okay to flirt and tease a little during your first contact, but keep it light and friendly. Don't write anything about sex, using any sex related words, or talk about how you are their perfect match or soul mate. You are getting to know a perfect stranger. Again, keep it light and friendly.... as if you were meeting a new colleague that is works with you.
If the email doesn't convey the right message, you may not hear anything back from him/her. Remember you probably aren't the only one that liked him/her. Your email can be one of many. Make what you say stand out. Give him/her reason to write back. Ask questions, and offer to answer questions. This is your big chance to get to know more about each other.
By now you should have a really strong grounding for what it takes to get your email noticed or replied to. These principles do work, I know cause I am now a very happily married man to an amazing women. No tricks, No games just straight out winning tactics http://www.ticket4one.com
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Monday, May 01, 2006
Speed Dating Events
Speed Dating Events have been growing in population since early 1999. Wondering where you go to meet people with the same interests as you? Tired of the bar scene and weary of blind dates, speed dating offers a fun and safe alternative.
Rabbi Yaacov Deyo established speed dating in 1999, based on a Jewish tradition of chaperoned gatherings of young Jewish singles. Originally intended as a way of keeping Jewish singles from marrying outside the faith; the speed-dating movement is now flourishing in communities throughout the world.Read On...
Rabbi Yaacov Deyo established speed dating in 1999, based on a Jewish tradition of chaperoned gatherings of young Jewish singles. Originally intended as a way of keeping Jewish singles from marrying outside the faith; the speed-dating movement is now flourishing in communities throughout the world.Read On...
Labels: dating, dating blog, dating site, online dating, singles events, speed dating, speeddating
Saturday, April 29, 2006
Free Online Dating
Free online dating is everywhere. If your just about to take that exciting plunge into finding your souls companion online. Then you must read this free info article first. I am going to save you years off your search and teach you how to avoid the thousands of annoying fake profiles currently online for free. THAT’S RIGHT FREE!
I have been surfing the net for years wondering in and out of websites cruising for the right one and the right people. Finally I have found my wife to be and i am here to share with you my finest secrets on how to use Free Online dating to its maximum and find your soul mate for little or No cost.
There are loads of websites on the market that offer everything. Some free and others that are very expensive. So what’s the main difference between them? And how can you choose which ones are better suited to you? To be honest I believe I would be a member of at leaast 10 dating sites. And let me say that at least 9 of them are garbage. Some Great site Qualities to look for when finding dating sites:
Opening of the site is professional.
Members pics on front page.
Choose a site that isn’t afraid to show how many members it has
Often a site with fewer numbers gives you greater chances to be noticed by others.
Look for a description of what the site offers before joining; make sure it’s not a porn site.
The problem with the majority of free online dating sites is they attract a huge number of members from poor foreign countries. Often these members want to try and send you a scam offering huge financial returns for helping them out. And the whole time all they really want is your banking details so they can rob you blind. I strongly suggest staying away from these sites. Find a site that charges very minimal rates to email others. And free to join. IT’S SAFER
Once you have joined a website don’t pay right away for email usage. Upload a picture if you can, it increases your chances of people emailing you. Search for other member’s profiles and send Virtual kisses first. Once you can see other members are interested in you and that they are roughly the type of people you want to get to know then upgrade for a paid membership and begin communicating.
Now you have all the tools needed for a successful online dating campaign. Before you read this article you were probably a bit apprehensive about joining a dating site but think about all the things you just learnt.
How to find real people
How to pick a professional site
How to play the numbers game successfully
How to get noticed quicker
How to test a site before you buy in
The importance of advertising yourself
Online dating security
How to find your real soul mate
What kind of sites to avoid
Free online dating is easy. Ticket4one.com is one the most trustworthy sources of online participants available to daters. Full of events and activities worldwide set up to bring people like you together. Our events and activities are similar to speed dating events only we don’t do it at a bar or restaurant. We actually get out in the real world and do things like 4x4 tours, Mystery bus tours, learn2surf, poker nights, self-help and motivational course and many more. Our statement is “ Real events for real people. To meet others in a No obligation stress free environment.”http://www.ticket4one.com
I have been surfing the net for years wondering in and out of websites cruising for the right one and the right people. Finally I have found my wife to be and i am here to share with you my finest secrets on how to use Free Online dating to its maximum and find your soul mate for little or No cost.
There are loads of websites on the market that offer everything. Some free and others that are very expensive. So what’s the main difference between them? And how can you choose which ones are better suited to you? To be honest I believe I would be a member of at leaast 10 dating sites. And let me say that at least 9 of them are garbage. Some Great site Qualities to look for when finding dating sites:
Opening of the site is professional.
Members pics on front page.
Choose a site that isn’t afraid to show how many members it has
Often a site with fewer numbers gives you greater chances to be noticed by others.
Look for a description of what the site offers before joining; make sure it’s not a porn site.
The problem with the majority of free online dating sites is they attract a huge number of members from poor foreign countries. Often these members want to try and send you a scam offering huge financial returns for helping them out. And the whole time all they really want is your banking details so they can rob you blind. I strongly suggest staying away from these sites. Find a site that charges very minimal rates to email others. And free to join. IT’S SAFER
Once you have joined a website don’t pay right away for email usage. Upload a picture if you can, it increases your chances of people emailing you. Search for other member’s profiles and send Virtual kisses first. Once you can see other members are interested in you and that they are roughly the type of people you want to get to know then upgrade for a paid membership and begin communicating.
Now you have all the tools needed for a successful online dating campaign. Before you read this article you were probably a bit apprehensive about joining a dating site but think about all the things you just learnt.
How to find real people
How to pick a professional site
How to play the numbers game successfully
How to get noticed quicker
How to test a site before you buy in
The importance of advertising yourself
Online dating security
How to find your real soul mate
What kind of sites to avoid
Free online dating is easy. Ticket4one.com is one the most trustworthy sources of online participants available to daters. Full of events and activities worldwide set up to bring people like you together. Our events and activities are similar to speed dating events only we don’t do it at a bar or restaurant. We actually get out in the real world and do things like 4x4 tours, Mystery bus tours, learn2surf, poker nights, self-help and motivational course and many more. Our statement is “ Real events for real people. To meet others in a No obligation stress free environment.”http://www.ticket4one.com
Labels: dating, dating blog, dating site, free, online, online dating
Thursday, April 27, 2006
Trying Online Dating
Trying online dating: Thinking about trying Online Dating but not really sure if it’s the right thing for you? I have been surfing the net for years wondering in and out of websites cruising for the right one and the right people. Finally I have found my wife to be and i am here to share with you my finest secrets on how to use Internet dating to its maximum and find your soul mate.
If your trying online dating or just about to take that exciting plunge into finding your souls companion online. Then you must read this free info article first. I am going to save you years off your search and teach you how to avoid the thousands of annoying fake profiles currently online for free. THAT’S RIGHT FREE!
Ok so your tired of sitting at home waiting for Mr. or Mrs. right to walk in through your lounge room door and sweep you off your feet. And you have probably been wondering where people go to meet other singles that think about life the way you do. Night clubs are cool and full of a lot of singles, but its really hard to meet genuine heart felt people that have a dozen beers under their belt.
You are an amazing human being and you should wake up everyday and tell yourself that. There are literally millions of single people out there that are just dying inside for someone to just talk to. A lot of these singles have already joined the online dating scene and often log onto their favorite site to just say hi to people after a long day at work.
There are loads of websites on the market that offer everything. Some free, and others that are very expensive. So what’s the main difference between them? and how can you choose which ones are better suited to you? To be honest I believe I would be a member of at leaast 10 dating sites. And let me say that at least 9 of them are garbage. Some Great site Qualities to look for when trying online dating:
Opening of the site is professional
Members pics on front page
Choose a site that isn’t afraid to show how many members it has
Often a site with fe
If your trying online dating or just about to take that exciting plunge into finding your souls companion online. Then you must read this free info article first. I am going to save you years off your search and teach you how to avoid the thousands of annoying fake profiles currently online for free. THAT’S RIGHT FREE!
Ok so your tired of sitting at home waiting for Mr. or Mrs. right to walk in through your lounge room door and sweep you off your feet. And you have probably been wondering where people go to meet other singles that think about life the way you do. Night clubs are cool and full of a lot of singles, but its really hard to meet genuine heart felt people that have a dozen beers under their belt.
You are an amazing human being and you should wake up everyday and tell yourself that. There are literally millions of single people out there that are just dying inside for someone to just talk to. A lot of these singles have already joined the online dating scene and often log onto their favorite site to just say hi to people after a long day at work.
There are loads of websites on the market that offer everything. Some free, and others that are very expensive. So what’s the main difference between them? and how can you choose which ones are better suited to you? To be honest I believe I would be a member of at leaast 10 dating sites. And let me say that at least 9 of them are garbage. Some Great site Qualities to look for when trying online dating:
Opening of the site is professional
Members pics on front page
Choose a site that isn’t afraid to show how many members it has
Often a site with fe