Dating Blog List of Online dating Tips and advice
Monday, June 11, 2007
Online Flirting – A New Art Form
Many of the same things work for online flirting that work for “brick and mortar” flirting and all relationships begin with successful flirting.
Flirting is an art that requires oozing confidence without being OTT. If you go too far, she will label you “slimy” If you don’t go far enough, she will label you “wimpy”.
So how do you achieve that point half way between slimy and wimpy and do it online without using eye contact or body language?
All you have is a computer an internet connection and membership in an online dating site, right?
1. Have fun! Be light-hearted, funny and entertaining. Make her eager to talk to you again. Flirting is playful.
2. Ooze confidence. Successful flirts have a positive outlook on life. You need to transmit the “feel good” factor. An optimistic attitude attracts females like honey attracts flies.
3. 3. Compliment her…and do it often and sincerely. Nothing opens doors like making her feel good about herself. She will want to spend more time with you and if she pays you a compliment say “thank you”. Do Not be self depreciating.
4. Listen…listen….listen. Pay attention to what she says and ask appropriate questions. Get her to open up and talk about herself. Make her feel like she is interesting and that you are interested in her. Works wonders!
5. Don’t be rude. Flirting does not include being sexually explicit nor taking offence if the lady isn’t responding to you. If she isn’t interested, take the hint and move on to the next prospect. If you get a lot of rejections, you should probably consider a different approach.
6. Send an email after you chat. This ranks right up there with sending a thank you note for a gift and it is vital to successful flirting.
Don’t try to go too fast. Flirting is the first step to a successful relationship.
Until the next time!
Flirting is an art that requires oozing confidence without being OTT. If you go too far, she will label you “slimy” If you don’t go far enough, she will label you “wimpy”.
So how do you achieve that point half way between slimy and wimpy and do it online without using eye contact or body language?
All you have is a computer an internet connection and membership in an online dating site, right?
1. Have fun! Be light-hearted, funny and entertaining. Make her eager to talk to you again. Flirting is playful.
2. Ooze confidence. Successful flirts have a positive outlook on life. You need to transmit the “feel good” factor. An optimistic attitude attracts females like honey attracts flies.
3. 3. Compliment her…and do it often and sincerely. Nothing opens doors like making her feel good about herself. She will want to spend more time with you and if she pays you a compliment say “thank you”. Do Not be self depreciating.
4. Listen…listen….listen. Pay attention to what she says and ask appropriate questions. Get her to open up and talk about herself. Make her feel like she is interesting and that you are interested in her. Works wonders!
5. Don’t be rude. Flirting does not include being sexually explicit nor taking offence if the lady isn’t responding to you. If she isn’t interested, take the hint and move on to the next prospect. If you get a lot of rejections, you should probably consider a different approach.
6. Send an email after you chat. This ranks right up there with sending a thank you note for a gift and it is vital to successful flirting.
Don’t try to go too fast. Flirting is the first step to a successful relationship.
Until the next time!
Labels: dating site, online, online dating, online flirting, relationship
Tuesday, November 28, 2006
More Dating Success Tips
Interviews with several happy couples, show that successful dating comes from a combination of small steps that lead up to the dating relationship.
Here are some steps they.
Be Happy
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Examine your mindset. What do you think about? If not happy thoughts, change and stat thinking happier thoughts. You are in charge!
A positive mind and happy, upbeat attitude will help you succeed, while a bad attitude can pull you down.
Don’t Go it alone!
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Seek help and advice from others. Look for local or online support groups, seek self help or inspirational mentors and coaches like Zig Ziglar, who has many books and cassettes available through local libraries.
Listen Faster and Better
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Put the other person’s needs first in a relationship. Hear what they have to say and don’t let your mind wander while the other person is talking, trying to jump in or ahead of the conversation.
Relax and really actively listen.
Be Proactive
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Spend 10 minutes or so a day planning for tomorrow during quite time. Try to cut out unnecessary running around and useless tasks or time-wasters.
Get & Stay Healthy
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Eat right and work in plenty of activity into your day. No need to join a gym. Park farther away during errands. Get up and stretch during the day.
Exercise in front of the television at night instead of eating junk food.
So learn from happy couples. Create your own successful dating relationships!
Until the next time,
Here are some steps they.
Be Happy
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Examine your mindset. What do you think about? If not happy thoughts, change and stat thinking happier thoughts. You are in charge!
A positive mind and happy, upbeat attitude will help you succeed, while a bad attitude can pull you down.
Don’t Go it alone!
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Seek help and advice from others. Look for local or online support groups, seek self help or inspirational mentors and coaches like Zig Ziglar, who has many books and cassettes available through local libraries.
Listen Faster and Better
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Put the other person’s needs first in a relationship. Hear what they have to say and don’t let your mind wander while the other person is talking, trying to jump in or ahead of the conversation.
Relax and really actively listen.
Be Proactive
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Spend 10 minutes or so a day planning for tomorrow during quite time. Try to cut out unnecessary running around and useless tasks or time-wasters.
Get & Stay Healthy
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Eat right and work in plenty of activity into your day. No need to join a gym. Park farther away during errands. Get up and stretch during the day.
Exercise in front of the television at night instead of eating junk food.
So learn from happy couples. Create your own successful dating relationships!
Until the next time,
Labels: couples, dating, dating blog, online dating, relationship
Tuesday, November 21, 2006
Hot Dating Advice
Dating services often post tips on their websites for successful relationship building. So rev up your love life with a coupe of hot tips from the dating service gurus.
Avoid stress when possible.
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If you run into someone who takes the opposite opinion to every one you present or is argumentative; i.e. seems to like to fight, for example, move on and seek more even toned relationships.
Listen to your body and when you start feeling overwhelmed, stop and take charge.
Continue Learning.
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Many people you run into will be changing their lifestyles, jumping back into single-hood after a divorce or bad relationship. They’ll be trying new things, gaining new self-confidence, growing from past behaviors that no longer work for them.
Jump in there, too, and join them in continuing your own education. You don’t necessarily need to get formal, like return college. But read more in your fields of interest.
Subscribe to eZines in your niches. And get up to speed with the latest local news and scene so that you can have plenty to discuss with your dates.
So boost your dating power by reviving up your engine. De-stress and stay fresh!
Until the next time!
Avoid stress when possible.
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If you run into someone who takes the opposite opinion to every one you present or is argumentative; i.e. seems to like to fight, for example, move on and seek more even toned relationships.
Listen to your body and when you start feeling overwhelmed, stop and take charge.
Continue Learning.
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Many people you run into will be changing their lifestyles, jumping back into single-hood after a divorce or bad relationship. They’ll be trying new things, gaining new self-confidence, growing from past behaviors that no longer work for them.
Jump in there, too, and join them in continuing your own education. You don’t necessarily need to get formal, like return college. But read more in your fields of interest.
Subscribe to eZines in your niches. And get up to speed with the latest local news and scene so that you can have plenty to discuss with your dates.
So boost your dating power by reviving up your engine. De-stress and stay fresh!
Until the next time!
Labels: advice, dating, dating blog, love, relationship
